Narrative therapy is a therapeutic approach based on the idea that the
stories we tell ourselves shape our identity and emotions. Often, these stories
are influenced by negative experiences or traumas that distort how we see
ourselves. Rewriting these stories allows you to regain control and transform
your perspective into a more positive one.
In practice, narrative therapy invites you to reflect on life events and
how you interpret them. Someone who perceives themselves as a
"failure" may find, through this approach, that they have overcome
significant challenges and that their resilience is a strength. This change in
narrative improves self-esteem and allows people to address emotional problems
from a place of greater clarity and confidence.
How to Start Rewriting Your Personal Story
Rewriting begins with identifying the thought
patterns that limit you. Reflect on key moments in your life and how you
interpret them. Ask yourself if those interpretations are yours or if they have
been influenced by other people or external circumstances. This process helps
recognize how certain stories have shaped your identity and decide which ones
you want to keep and which you need to transform.